Measure of Life

Sometimes in life we find ourselves so busy with our day-to-day existences that we, as people, forget what the larger picture is really about. We get so enwrapped in getting by and surviving that we forget the reasons we fight so hard to stay alive and we lose sight of the things, the countless, wondrous things, that make life on this planet more than just tolerable, but enjoyable.

You see, the joys of life don't lie in work, in money, or even the pursuit of knowledge, but in the reasons we invest so heavily in those things. All of the skills we have, all of the knowledge we hold and all of the tools we can use are meaningless unless we can use them to make ourselves more happy or make the world around us a better place. If we're not doing that, then we're not living. Instead, we're dying, or rather, just waiting for death to come and put us out of our misery.

I've never looked a man's wealth or a man's mind to determine how he's spent his life, I've looked at his smile. I've looked smiling idiots in the face and wondered, endlessly wondered, what he can teach me, what his secret to life is. For all of my knowledge, for all of my work, I've learned nothing about happiness. I've read hundreds of books, torn through thousands of articles and studied the things we intellects study only to find all of these things bereft of any mention of the word "happiness."

No one, not scholars sitting in their ivory towers or CEOs in their posh offices, can teach you a thing about happiness you can't find within yourself. The true measures of life, the joys we feel and the things we achieve, cannot be learned from anyone or anything. Rather, they come from studying yourself. They come from picking through the rubble of a heartbreak, they come from learning your own skills and abilities, but, most importantly, they come from searching your heart, digging deep within yourself and finding the strength to overcome your obstacles, big and small, and finding the will to be come something greater than the sum of your parts.

Any one can point to a pile of money, any one can spout tomes of knowledge and any one can do the grind just to get by, but only a select few, a rare, beautiful few, have what it takes to search themselves, stare at themselves in the mirror and truly like what they see. Life isn't measured in the mind, the wallet or the back, but in the heart. It's measured in love for oneself, for others and for one's principles. It's measured in the guts to stand up for what one believes, the willingness to take the chance and reach beyond what mortals are supposed to achieve and the strength to challenge one's own demons and slay them all one by one.

Life is truly a beautiful thing, but only if start measuring it the way it was meant to be. If you let society, if you let your family and if you let the world tell you what your goals should be, how you'll be the happiest, then life, the greatest thing you have, will be meaningless, just an existence between birth and death of no value to any one or anything.

That is a fate I will not stand for nor a destiny I will ever beat a path toward. My life is my own and yours is your own. You should live it as such and not let the measuring stick of others be your guide. Others may have more money than you, others may be smarter than you, but, if you control your destiny, follow your dreams and open your heart, no one will ever be happier than you.

Because, even as the money others have saved is spent and the knowledge of the wisest men is turned to dust in the winds of change, the joys you had, the joys you brought others and the joys you left behind will still be thriving strong, echoing, for all time in the universe that surrounds.

If you measure your life accordingly, you'll see what I mean. If you don't, well, all I can do is pity you before I go about my life, which I'm going to continue living the way it was meant to be lead. My way.

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8 Responses to Measure of Life

  1. Kelly says:

    I think that the true meaning of life, the only thing we need to do, is FIND a purpose. If we don't have a purpose, then we have nothing, you can just go kill yourself tomorrow and it wouldn't matter. But if you can find an actual purpose, not one ohters have placed on you but your very own crucial purpose, then you"ll have it all. After all, it's the journey, not the destination, right?

  2. Kelly says:

    I think that the true meaning of life, the only thing we need to do, is FIND a purpose. If we don't have a purpose, then we have nothing, you can just go kill yourself tomorrow and it wouldn't matter. But if you can find an actual purpose, not one ohters have placed on you but your very own crucial purpose, then you"ll have it all. After all, it's the journey, not the destination, right?

  3. karla says:

    I think you views on the measure of live have truly changed mine…thank you

  4. Care says:

    Raven,

    I used a piece of your work to comment on a friends untimely passing…I searched for the right words but couldn't find any. I came upon this in my search on how you can possibly measure a life…this is EXACTLY how to answer that question. THANK YOU.

  5. Labthwick says:

    well my friend.. i also used this rant in a band forum … and raven my friend you rock …

  6. Dabria says:

    I think that evenone may have a purpose yet it coudl be good or bad. You may be here just to achieve something so miniscule that no one will notice or someone so big that everyone. Although this may be your purpose you must have some happiness in living this virtue. You must believe in yourself and your knowledge will over come you and you will know what your meaning of life is. Not event he happiest person will always be happy. there will always be a great barrier to overcrose to be happy. You must find it and climb it to the top

  7. Mike says:

    I have come to the conclusion that we really serve no plausable purpose. If you re a satanist then you would beleive our purpose is to turn the tide of the war between heavan and hell. But once this war is finished what will become of us?? With our only purpose forfilled will we just cease to exist… If you are Christian then you might beleive that we live only to serve and worship god.. But if this is true why were we created and why do we worship a deity who created us without a purpose to serve.. This thought burdens my mind daily… But we must have a plausable purpose. This is a very inperpicous subject but, if any one out there has any input for me on the subject I would appritiate it if you were to Instant message me on aol my sn is usernoname9986 or you could just email me at usernoname9986@aol.com thank you

  8. Infinity says:

    i think there is no true meaning of life. we all serve a purpose, yes, but what happens after we fulfill that purpose? do we just become some empty shell, forever walking the earth, or is there more? i am a huge fan of your work but there is still more nessescary information needed. there is such a thing as destiny, but only by the means of infinity do we find the answer.

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